Introduction
The Sparks Series is a special series within The SoulFire Sessions.
While our regular episodes explore a wide range of conversations around purpose, leadership, and growth, the Sparks Series is dedicated to spotlighting purpose-driven leaders who are creating meaningful impact in their work and communities. Each episode centers on their story, their leadership, and the moments that sparked the work they’re doing today.
Summary
In this episode of the Sparks Series, Mariah Newman turns the microphone around to interview July Spark, Alex Widener, a coach, consultant, podcast host, and storyteller who believes every person has a story worth telling.
Together, they explore the experiences that shaped Alex’s leadership philosophy, the role faith and healing have played in her journey, and why she believes leadership is more about influence than titles. From higher education and coaching to Celebrate Recovery and storytelling, Alex shares how learning to ask better questions has transformed the way she leads and serves others.
This conversation is a reminder that purpose isn’t something you have to have all figured out before you begin. Sometimes it’s been woven through your story all along.
Takeaways
~ Leadership is about influence, not titles.
~ Every person has a story worth telling.
~ Asking better questions is often more powerful than giving advice.
~ Purpose doesn’t require having everything figured out.
~ Healing begins when people feel safe enough to be honest.
~ Authenticity creates connection, courage, and growth.
~ The greatest impact we leave is often found in how we make people feel.
In this episode
00:00 Welcome to Sparks & Turning the Microphone Around
02:10 A Different Definition of Leadership
07:55 “She’s Just a Secretary”: A Defining Leadership Moment
14:20 Influence, Relationships & Becoming the Leader You Needed
22:45 The Impact We Leave on Others
27:30 Storytelling, Faith & Discovering Purpose
32:40 Coaching Through Questions Instead of Answers
37:15 Purpose While You’re Still Figuring It Out
39:10 Closing Reflections